Sunday, June 01, 2008

We see things differently...

Dear diary,
Little nitty gritty things can become big stuff if we dun understand the concept of individual differences.How a person see things might differ from another person. As human being living in a society ,accepting queerness and absurd idea in the first place can become bearable after we take a deep breath and strengthen the antenna of our brain .IT's easier said than done, I know that for sure but this is part and parcel of us being human being and living in a society. Unless one prefer to become a person living in a deep jungle alone and staying with wild animals, well, that is another story..but somehow, living in wilderness also requires a bit of common sense and understanding, for we intrude the habitat of the wild animals, either intentionally or not, one can become their free dinner..
For our part, no matter how much we hate the new things being shoved to us, how you deal with yourself internally is first and foremost important. I, for one couldn't take changes so sudden.As for me,usually what I do is to make jokes when the situation becomes too stiff or I can sense that somehow it will bring to fight or more disastrous situation.
Later, when alone, I'll think of how good/bad the idea is, what are the consequences if changes been made to the norm way..after a while, our body will calm the mind and eventually a good decision is made. The conclusion doesn't necessarily be we follow the changes earlier but how do we face the actual situation or maybe if it's for betterment of something, changes on our part is necessary.